Sister Mary Ann Barnhorn, SNDdeN
Who is this Mary we celebrate in May? Many of us have visions of who Mary is, what she might look like, and even how she lived. I believe she was far from the royal depictions we see in Marian art, yet that too captures part of who Mary is.
The truth about Mary or Miriam, as she might have been called, is that she was a Jewish girl, 13 or 14 years old. She was a faithful, young woman deeply rooted in the religious and cultural traditions of first century Judaism.
Like many girls her age, she spent her days helping to care for her family’s home, hauling water from a well or stream, gathering wood for a fire, cooking meals, and washing utensils or clothes.
We don’t hear much about Mary’s daily life, yet it was at this time that the angel appeared to her! Her response tells us so much about her faith and courage. I’m sure Mary didn’t fully understand what was being asked of her, but she trusted God more than anything else.
“‘My soul proclaims the greatness of the Lord; my spirit rejoices in God my savior. For he has looked upon his handmaid’s lowliness; behold, from now on will all ages call me blessed. The Mighty One has done great things for me, and holy is his name.’” Luke 1:46-49
Mary’s life invites us to trust in God’s plan and purpose. She shows us the strength in tradition and teaches us to see ourselves as part of the great story of God’s relationship and hopes for His people. Day in and day out, as we nurture and practice trusting God, we too can say to God,
“‘May it be done to me according to your word.’” Luke 1:38
Mary became the mother of the Messiah! One day at a time, Mary learned more about her Son and His mission. Her faith and trust did not waiver, even in the sad and most difficult times.
At the Wedding Feast of Cana, her words to the servants, “Do whatever he tells you,” are prophetic words to us. “Do whatever he tells you” is good advice from this holy woman, His mother and ours. As we continue on our journey with Jesus, never forget Mary’s words and examples.
Blessings,
Sister Mary Ann Barnhorn, SNDdeN
“I give you a new commandment: love one another. As I have loved you, so you also should love one another. This is how all will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” John 13:34-35